In all my years as a jewelry designer, I've sat across from dozens of men looking to find the perfect ring for their special someone. Many of them had a stressed look on their faces; most began the conversation with, "I have no idea where to start," and all of them asked themselves the crucial question - will she love the ring?
Recently, I've noticed a significant and very positive change in the approach to buying the ring. They no longer come alone, don't rely on a sister or friend, and don't hide the fact that they are about to propose. They come together. Couples who know that their love is mutual and strong, that their future is shared - and just as they found each other, they don't want to compromise on the suitability of the ring for the bride.
So how does it work? First, I have a preliminary conversation with the groom-to-be. He sets a budget for me and tells me a bit about them and what they are looking for. Then, I talk to her and hear about her dream ring. After that, they sit together in front of me, side by side, and together they choose the diamonds, the gemstones, and the design.
Both of them are involved in the selection process; the advice and ideas bounce between the three of us - which helps to focus and fine-tune until the perfect ring is created. And all within the budget he set initially, with no need for compromises.
When the sketch design phase is complete and everything is approved by her, I take her out of the loop. Her role is done. Now it's his turn to receive the ring and decide when and how he wants to propose to her - after all, romance isn't dead; it just got a little twist in the story :)
She is always surprised, always excited, and always calls me to tell me how the ring turned out even more perfect than she could have imagined.
What is certain is that this is how the most special rings are created - because they perfectly reflect your personalities and symbolize the unique connection you share.
